Bukannya aku menidakkan cinta mahupun mengenepikan cinta tetapi cinta itu sendiri amat payah dan sukar untuk datang kepadaku. Aku sendiri tidak tahu bagaimana mahu membuatkan cinta itu datang kepadaku atau akukah sendiri yang perlu mencari cinta. Tetapi bagi kita orang Melayu ini, bila perempuan pergi mencari cinta, ia ibarat perigi mencari timba dan dunia bagaikan hendak terbalik. Apakah itu sesuatu yang kita boleh pegang hingga sekarang? Haruskah perigi itu menunggu sahaja timba datang kepadanya? Apakah ia tidak ada hak untuk mencari dan memilih timba yang patut dan terbaik untuknya?
Ini perigi zaman moden, perigi yang sudah boleh berdikari dan punya ilmu untuk kesana kemari. Perigi yang mampu bertanya jika tersesat jalan dan mampu mencari jalan pulang ke pangkal. Perigi zaman sekarang boleh memilih mana timba yang sesuai atau tidak!
Tetapi timba masih berpegang kepada pemikiran lama, yang ia punya hak untuk memilih yang terbaik buat dirinya.
Mengapa perigi tiada hak untuk memilih? Oh! tidak...
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Peribahasa 'perigi mencari timba' hny digunakan oleh masyarakat kita yg bnyk berpegang kepada adat.Bimbang kehormatan gadis disalahertikan.Namun persoalan ini berlegar di kalangan budaya org melayu bukan budaya Islam.Di dlm Islam hanya digariskan perkara yg perlu diambil perhatian sebelum membina mahligai.Berbalik kepada sirah, Siti Khadijah sendiri meminang Rasulullah untuk dirinya.Jika terlalu memikirkan kehendak adat maka kadangkala keinginan kita tidak tercapai.Sesuatu itu sebenarnya amat mudah dilakukan tetapi kita terlalu memikirkan ketidakrasionalnya jika dilakukan.Disebabkan itu jika sesuatu yg kita rasa patut atau tidak utk melakukannya Allah telah memberi jalan yg mudah iaitu 'Solat Istikharah'.Semua persoalan ada jawapan dan semua kekusutan ada penyelesaian.Renungkan...
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